Mr. Fox: A Charming, Unnerving Love Story

Some books shove the reader outside of their comfort zone, demanding that they look at not only life and ideas from a new perspective but that they approach the narrative form itself from a different angle. In Mr. Fox, Helen Oyeyemi creates a love triangle that spans numerous independent stories, all spun by St. John Fox (a writer who continually kills women in his stories and is inspired by Bluebeard), Mary Foxe (the so-called “muse” that Mr. Fox has conjured–although she plays a much larger part than inspiration by creating her own stories and blurring the line between real and imaginary), and Daphne Fox (Mr. Fox’s wife). Each of the stories focuses on relationships and how difficult it is for people to connect in a meaningful way. At first, Mary starts interfering with Mr. Fox’s stories because she is outraged by his tendency to kill his female characters, but as the novel goes on these stories become increasingly complex and emotionally charged.

Cover and Formatting: First and foremost, I have to say that this is a beautiful book in terms of the cover and formatting. This is certainly a volume that I enjoy having on my shelf. Helen Yentus and Jason Booher, the jacket designers, did a wonderful job creating an interesting cover that is both understated and engaging–much like the novel itself.

Plot: This book challenged me in terms of following the plot. Oyeyemi has created a structure that requires readers to work in order to get the most out of it. I realized, in reading this book, that I may have become a bit lazy in my reading habits and am glad to have come up against an author who doesn’t underestimate the intelligence of her readers by spelling everything out for them (not that the other authors I’ve read recently have done so). By creating multiple stories within the novel, Oyeyemi is able to shed light on different aspects of love and loss. But because she tells most of these stories using the same characters, as if she is putting Mr. Fox, Mary, and Daphne into a room of mirrors that reflect at all angles, the reader has a sense of continuity. This, I believe, is why the more experimental structure works.

Characterization: Oyeyemi has created three characters that anchor the novel, but these characters take on varying roles throughout the stories that they present. As such, there is no real character development; the book focuses, instead, on the nature of relationships. Seeing these characters in different situations, leading different lives, allows readers to focus on their relationships instead of on who they are. In this way, a lack of characterization (or, rather, the establishment of multiple characters that call upon the same fundamental qualities as their original form yet differ in each story) lends to the success of the novel as a whole.

Writing Style: Oyeyemi’s writing is vibrant and jarring, yet at the same time subtle (as is the novel itself). She has a talent for presenting complex ideas in simple ways without taking away from their weight.

Ideas: This novel left me feeling bittersweet, as many of the stories show relationships that, no matter how hard the characters try, just do not work; however, as someone who enjoys poignant stories of this nature, I found this to be incredibly insightful. Love is, itself, a simple idea; the way in which love functions in the world can become complex. But the idea that I got out of the novel is that, no matter how broken people are, or how their story ends, the relationships that they build are worthwhile.

Mr. Fox is one of those books that will elicit various responses from readers depending upon their past and the ways in which they relate to the stories and characters that it presents–which is one of the reasons why I believe it is such a good novel. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in creative writing structures and diving deeper into the ways in which people connect with one another and, ultimately, love.

I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. 

Lyrical Literature: The Graveyard Near the House

“The Graveyard Near the House” by The Airborne Toxic Event is my favorite love song. I love its honesty and the simplicity of the ideas that it presents, which allow it to talk about love without being ridiculous. The entire song is impeccably written, as are most of TATE’s songs.

Oh, and there’s a viola. That also makes it badass.

I particularly like the line about memorizing one’s lines. This shows that the speaker is willing to play his part and commit to that role. This theme is again touched upon at the end, when it is mentioned that he will defy all of his fears to love her still.

Much Ado About Loving: A Guide to Love Via the Classics

One of the things that makes a classic a classic is its ability to present ideas that transcend time. A highly popular theme among classics (and, arguably, novels in general) is love. For hundreds of years, novelists have opened their hearts to readers, teaching them how to fall in love, who not to fall in love with, and a myriad of other lessons that we as readers and, some of us, hopeless lovers of romance, need to keep soldiering on in the name of love. Despite heartbreak, heartache, and the perils of the dating scene, these books teach us to keep our chins up and our eyes focused on potential suitors.

Although love is a common theme amongst classics, Jack Murnigham and Maura Kelly are the first to look at the classical canon as a whole. While Jane Austen may present interesting ideas about marriage, Murnighan and Kelly have added another dimension to her ideas by presenting them with important lessons from Tolstoy, Plath, Dickens, Faulkner, the Brontës, Fitzgerald, and more. With a cleverness rivaled only by Cupid himself, Murnighan and Kelly have put together an anthology of romance that traces the fundamental characteristics of successful, and not so successful, relationships since the classic novel was born.

Cover and Title: The title, just like all of the chapter headings, is catchy, smart, and clever. It sets the tone not only for the content of the book, but for the fun style in which it is written. At first I didn’t like the cover, but after looking at it more closely I have realized that it integrates the texture of old covers into the background. Though the contrast between the blue and red isn’t my favorite, I love mix of old and new textures, as well as the font.

Writing: Murnighan and Kelly have great writing styles. They are clever and smart without seeming haughty. The only issue I had is that their writing styles are very similar, so sometimes it was easy to forget who was writing a certain chapter; however, each chapter indicates who wrote it, so this is really a non-issue.

I wasn’t sure what to expect when I first opened this book. To be honest, I was a little worried that it would be a simple, boring rundown of different romantic scenarios as presented by the classic cannon. Luckily, my expectations were completely wrong. Not only did Murnighan and Kelly have me literally laughing out loud, they enabled me to look at my own life and my own relationships from a new perspective. While I’m in a healthy, committed relationship now, I was able to understand a bit more why past experiences have not been so successful.

In addition to providing a great bit of entertainment, offering a new angle from which to look at my love life, and getting me out of a reading slump, Much Ado About Loving rekindled my interest in a few classics that I have been putting off (read: it actually makes me want to take on War and Peace). I highly recommend this book to anyone looking for a lighthearted read that is solidly anchored in some of the most valuable lessons the classics have to offer.

I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

The 5 Love Languages: A Character Study

I don’t normally read self-help books, but I was told by multiple people who The 5 Love Languages is a must-read. After getting through it, I can only concur.

Gary Chapman’s book doesn’t tell readers what to do to make their relationships work. It doesn’t provide a list of actions that will save a failing marriage, make your boyfriend or girlfriend stay with you forever, or teach you the ultimate truth behind how to find and keep love. What this book will do is just as important–it will teach you how to understand the ways in which you comprehend love and the ways in which your significant other recognizes that you love them.

The love languages that Chapman proposes represent the different categories of actions that people appreciate most. These include: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Though everyone is different, each person is sure to value actions that fit into one of these categories, specifically.

Now, Chapman has included two tests in the back of the book, one for men and one for women, to help readers determine which love languages they value most. I took this test and it was not accurate, so I don’t think that it is, overall, a very valuable tool. The way that the test is written makes you choose between a or b, and of course even if you don’t like either choice, you must choose one and a language you may not care about gets a point. This isn’t to say that the test isn’t accurate for other readers, though.

Some people may read the book to find out more about their love languages, or their partner’s, but I read it straight through without skipping over any chapters. Though all of the information may not be relevant to my relationship, I found that it was relevant to how I viewed all relationships in general, not just those that are romantic (which, ultimately, is why I decided to blog about it). Overall, Chapman has created a book that allows us to better understand people in general.

Human interaction is something that many readers and writers are interested in and crave to explore. Though this book may not have changed my relationship, it has changed how I view the ways in which I communicate with everyone around me. That being said, I would recommend it to any writer that is trying to develop a believable character, as the ways in which love is expressed is central to creating a character that people understand and want to learn more about. The 5 Love Languages is just as valuable as a writer’s resource as it is a self-help book about communication, and that being said I think that any person interested in the ways in which people communicate could benefit from its message.